Sunday, 28 August 2011

Cyber Bullying.


My review from the video .

Bullying has undergone the new chapter in human history. Walking simultaneously with the technology, bullying enters the 21st century with a new perspective and new condition. For me, it is not a new thing. It is actually a normal situation if a stronger person take over the weak one in real life. But at this time, this kind of bullying does not need the face-to-face situation. One who has the guts to bully people on the virtual world, is free to bully others since there is no limitation of use on the internet.

The bullying, mostly known as cyber bullying, does not need physical strength and power to bully people. Just with the help of human's greatest creation - the internet, a person can bully other people via email, social network and blogs. This online harassment is mainly a serious problem. It can leave the victim feeling depressed and overwhelmed and if it is worsen, can lead someone to commit suicide.

I think that most people go cyber bullying because they are motivated by anger, revenge or frustration. Sometimes they do it for entertainment or because they are getting bored using the internet. But no matter what the situations are, cyber bullying is dangerous and threatening.

'Prevention is better than cure'. So, always keep in mind that the internet is accessible to millions of people in all parts of the world. Someone who may not even know who we are could want to hurt us. Do not give them the opportunity. Make sure that we never post or share something personal online. We also have to make sure that we are not compromising our friends  by posting information that could make them vulnerable to predators or cyber bullies. Another way to prevent cyber bullying is we must never talk to someone online that we have never met in person. If we really want be safe, we have to avoid chatting with anyone and strangers on the internet.

I think if we were following all the steps and applied them through life, I am guaranteed that we can avoid ourself from being one of the cyber bullying's victim.


Wednesday, 10 August 2011

An advice to you buddy!

No 21 Jalan Orkid,
Kuala Pilah,
Negeri Sembilan.

Dear stranger,

A big sympathy to you from an average guy who cares. I"m here to tell you that sometimes, life may be with you and sometimes life may be otherwise. I know that you are currently facing the second phase of severe depression in which, in my opinion can lead someone to commit suicide, similar thing that you want to do now. Here, I want to give you advice for you to think wisely and deeply about your decision of not wanting to live in this wonderful world.

For me, life is life, given by God, for us to live particularly and do everything we want to do because we only live once. No matter how hard the situation is, always think that there is a solution for all the problem that we face. Like in your condition, you think that everyone around you hate you much and didn't treat you like a normal human being right? But think again. Maybe there want to show it to you but because of your attitude, they refuse to do so. Just remember, 'Every cloud has a silver lining' .

I know that I'm not a good people yet a good adviser, but in a meantime, you must take my point to live in life. I, myself also face the same condition as you are. But I'm willing to overcome it with strength and hope with the help of family and close friends. I think that you can be as strong as me :) . And in life, we are not alone. Do remember, we have God. So, always pray to God. He knows the best for us !

Xoxo from  me . Have a joyful and meaningful life instead (: